song of apsaras 2002 - essay (bb)
essay 2 (sandy)

There were 18 of us when we set out from Changi Airport on 23 November 2002 to Yangon, Myanmar. Besides our own baggage, we were accompanied by 30 large boxes of medicines, soft toys, stationery and sweets that are kindly donated by members of Buddhist Fellowship, their family and friends. Although most of us did not know each other before we set off, everyone chipped in efforts in counting and labeling the boxes that we were going to send to Myanmar.



The first five days of our trip was focusing on the humanitarian project. We visited 3 schools and 1 medical centre in Bilin, 1 school, 2 orphanages and Zamburatana Buddhist Cultural Centre in Yangon. I was very impressed with the changes that Song of Apsaras 2001 had made to the schools in Bilin, thus it was worth mentioning here. With the funds that were donated, most of the schools are now equipped with basic furniture and classrooms to occupy the growing number of students. According to Venerable, the building of the primary and secondary schools in Bilin had benefited more than one thousand children in that area. We were very glad to hear that. However, there is an increasing need for the building of secondary school for the primary school leavers. Thus, most of the funds donated this year are for the extension of secondary school in Bilin.



The children in the schools were very happy when they saw us there. Till now, I can still remember vividly of their sweet innocent smile. The students were very well mannered and behaved. They queued up in an orderly manner with their arm folded while waiting for their turn to receive the gifts given and bounce politely to us as a sign of gratitude after receiving the gifts. Although we could see that most of them were very excited. Their teachers did not need to shout or give further instructions to make sure that they behaved themselves. This phenomenon could be very rare in primary schools in Singapore.

Besides schools, as mentioned we visited 2 orphanages. Most of us can’t hold our tears when we visited the Nunnery Orphanage (Vithakar Nunnery Teaching Women School). We were moved by the great work that the nun has done. The nun, who is an orphan herself, has aspired to help the homeless children when she was young. With this compassionate and selfless vow, she has set up an orphanage that provides shelter and basic education to more than one hundred homeless children. Once again, it proved to me that if one has strong determination and perseverance nothing would stop us from realizing our dream.

 

We have also visited Zamburatana Buddhist Cultural Centre, which conducts different courses on the knowledge of Buddhist Culture, Moral Lessons, Computer Lessons and the learning of English, Chinese and Japanese languages. The center has been conducting free courses since the time it was founded by Sayadaw (Venerable) Ashin Awbasa in 1985, and the texts for the courses are distributed for free. With the contribution of the Song of Apsaras 2001, a small library and a computer room were established. However, I reckon that more computers, storybooks and other basic furniture and fittings are still urgently needed to facilitate the growing number of students. In fact, the existing center is really small and not conducive for learning.



We had spent a wonderful and meaningful afternoon there and I really enjoyed talking to the students. Most of them could converse with us with fluent English and Mandarin! They were very polite, friendly and eager to learn. The performance that they presented to us was fantastic and entertaining too. Though it seems that we were there to help them, in fact I found that they were the one who had taught us valuable lesson - TO BE CONTENTED. Most of the people in Myanmar are very poor (materially); nevertheless they looked very happy and work in a smiling face. I think most people would agree with me that Myanmar is a very beautiful country. Besides its beautiful scenery, majestic pagodas and temples, its kind and friendly nations had left me with very good impression. In Myanmar you would not have to worry about pickpockets or thieves. I reckon, it is quite safe to travel there.

I felt so lucky and so much at peace and spiritually uplifted after this trip. Although it was all about SUFFERRING – seeing suffering, experiencing suffering (e.g. some of us fell sick) and understanding suffering; it opened up my eyes, heart and mind to those people who suffer. It urged me to put in more efforts in helping the needy in the future and not forgetting to strive harder in my own spiritual path.

Many people would say that, there are so many needy out there, how many could we save? Let’s just save ourselves first because our efforts might be too little to make any difference to others.

But, in <<Desaka Sutra>>, Buddha said:

“Attanam Rakkhanto Param Rakkhati,
(Helping myself I help others)

Attanam Rakkhanto Attanam Rakkhati,
(Helping others I help myself)

Khanti Avimhimsa Mettata Anuguhata.”
(Patience, Helpfulness, Friendliness, Concern)

In fact, when we are helping others we are actually helping ourselves. Buddha said that, “Every one of us has Buddha nature.” This means that every one of us is powerful enough to make a difference to our and other people’s life. I am very glad that I am able to participate in such meaningful trip and would really hope that more people will be able to join in such trip. Just like meditation, you would not understand what it is all about until you experience and try yourself.

Let us all grab every opportunity to do good and let what we have done benefit ourselves and others.  


Tan Bee-Bee
December 2002

Day 2
Dana at Naga Cave Monastery


An exciting morning for all of us was spent at Naga Cave Monastery. The monastery housed over 1,000 monks, novices, and nuns. Imagine, the youngest novice was only 6 years old! Standing in line at our various food stations, we offered dana to them as they came to us single-lined with their alms bowl. Wow! The experience was truly wondrous!


Zamburatana Buddhist Culture Centre
In the afternoon we proceeded on to Zamburatana Buddhist Cultural Centre. Song Of Apsaras helped to raise funds for the building of this centre in 2001 and this year’s we followed up with another donation package. In appreciation to us, the centre presented to us an impressive plague for our sincere efforts and contributions.

During the donation ceremony, students of the centre sang and danced for us. They even sang for us the song “If We Hold On Together” which we taught them last year. This touching gesture went straight for our hearts, making our eyes welled up with feelings of being remembered. Our SOA ladies led a song of “The More We Get Together”, with the Burmese students joining in with gusto. We also introduced the “Marcarena Dance”, bringing an enlivened atmosphere of life and laughter to the centre. The visit was indeed a heart-warming return for SOA, seeing all the smiling faces of the students. All our efforts were worth it!


Nursery Orphanage (for 5 years and below)

All the children were so CUTE !!!!!

Look at the way they grinned as they munched away at the cookies, biscuits and tit-bits we brought for them!

This nursery orphanage is home to little orphans from 2 years old. In Myanmar, orphanages are common places, home for the little lost innocents, who still had little or no idea of the harsh realisms of the world.

Song of Apsaras can only humbly offer these few moments of laughter and happiness that we brought to them on the trip.


Nunnery Orphanage


Day 3
Secondary School at Bilin – Dao Ya Jei Yua  

Woooaaaaahhhhhhh !!!!   

After six bumpy hours on the uneven rural roads from Yangon to Bilin, we finally reached our Mountain View resort. FINALLY, a much welcome respite for our BUMS!

After checking into our rooms and downing a quick lunch, we proceeded to Dao Ya Jei Yua, a secondary school in Bilin. All the students faces were full of smiles as we gave out the much-awaited stationeries and tit-bits to them. We also taught some of the students to fold simple paper origami, and gave out balloons to other excited children.

Watching all the gleeful faces at the school, SOA knew that these fulfilling images will be forever inscribed in our memories. In giving happiness without expectations to others, happiness shall be returned to you twice-fold and more when you least expect it. There’s really much truth in this.


Mountain View Hotel

Fresh hillside air, scenic view, nature enveloping, resort-style living, the Mountain View Hotel is really an ideal place for retirement, retreat, or a temporary escape from the ever-buzzing city rat-race.




Earlybird Brother Chong Jin schooled his mind in meditation amidst the absolute quietness and solitude of the early morning. Peace and tranquility amongst nature, what more could one ask for?


Day 4
Bilin Medical Centre


Inspired by Sayadaw (Venerable) U Sanda (2nd resident monk at the Burmese Buddhist Temple, Singapore) vision, Brothers James and Chong Jin led the SOA in the raising of funds for the building of this Bilin Medical Centre. In only months, the solid structure of the medical centre is up and standing. With this new medical centre scheduled to open in 2003, lets say “Saddhu, Saddhu, Saddhu” for the medical benefits that it will definitely bring to the common people of Bilin.
 

Visits to Primary Schools at Bilin

Mu La Dan Jiao Dao Ga Lei and Suei Yin Dong Mu La Dan Jiao were two primary schools that we visited in Bilin. Armed with bags and cartons of stationeries, toys, biscuits, sweets, and tit-bits, SOA is on another mission to spread joy and happiness.

Everyone received something, even the friendly neighborhood grannies, aunties and babies around the schools. Lollipops and sweets for everyone. Although farewell had to be said, we bring away with us the happy satisfied faces of the people of Bilin in all our hearts.


Day 6
“Express” Bus Journey from Yangon to Mandalay

The 24-hour bus journey was truly enlightenment in so many ways for all of us.

When in Singapore, before the trip, in consideration for cost, we decided to only include one internal flight in Myanmar (one way ticket cost USD98 you know, so X!). We unanimously agreed to take a “12-hour” express bus ride from Yangon to Mandalay. Never had we expect this decision to turn out to be an experience of our life!

That day, to save even more time, we decided to board the express bus at Dagon instead to going back all the way to Yangon and then restart from there anyway. So at 6.45pm local time, we gleefully stepped aboard the Express bus, after spending some 4 hours at a Dagon roadside restaurant sharing Dharma stories and tea.

Who would have expected a journey of 5 tire punctures along the long stretchy roads to Mandalay! And only 2 instant noodle meals, because that’s all we had dared to eat along the journey, seeing all the giant houseflies flying everywhere at all the roadside makan places! In Singapore, blue-green giant houseflies are so rare these days.

Trapped on the crowded bus, yet miraculously, not one word of complaint was heard from us. Awake … nothing to do … wait … patience … doze off … eyes opened again … awake … I look at you, you look at me, smile, sheepish faces everywhere … patience once more … silently read … oh no, not again! …. another puncture!

The young Burmese Inspirational Group sitting at the back of the bus provided a much welcomed respite to us when all of us were within silently seething our teeth wondering why on earth we had chosen to take the express bus instead of the flight just to save some money. The youths started singing, Burmese rock, pops and some timeless sentimental. SOA ladies, show your girlies power! We echoed back with our own set of familiar tunes. The karaoke session on the bus was a really wonderful gush of fresh air, recharging all of us. Three cheers for everyone!

And just as suddenly, we got an insight into the Four Noble truths. The 24-hour bus journey was indeed for this realization. Life is Suffering (All of us are ENDURING this 24-hour bus ride) … There is a Cause of Suffering (All of us do not want to pay USD98) … Cessation of Suffering (All of us just accept the fact that we are temporary trapped in the bus and that the journey will come to an end eventually) … End of Suffering (WE FINALLY ARRIVED AT MANDALAY!!!!!)

Hoooooray ! Hotel, hot dinner, soft bed … Sweet Nirvana (at least temporary) at last!


Sandy
December 2002